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Treat Yo Self

I know I’m late to the game on this, but can I just say how much I love Parks and Recreation! Keith and I are in the middle of season 4, and each episode is even funnier and more tightly written than the next. We tried watching it when it originally aired, but thought it was too close to The Office to watch. We were wrong. Duh. I think it’s so much better. 


I love the characters, and want to be Leslie Knope’s BFF (not just because we share a name but because she is an amazingly optimistic feminist). Or Ron Swanson’s, just because I know he would be a good person to have on my team in case of a zombie apocalypse. I also love how it reminds me of my time in local government – the situations and the personalities are eerily similar. “Literally.”

Turtles and Fire (But Not Together)

Apparently, today is World Turtle Day, which I didn’t know existed until Facebook friends posted super cute turtle pictures this morning. Its purpose is to bring attention to, and increase knowledge and respect for, turtles and tortoises, as well as encourage human action to help them survive and thrive. As Floridians, we see turtles nesting on our beaches, and the direct adverse affect of humans on the turtles’ abilities to nest.

  

In our area, the McGough Nature Park is home to a huge turtle population, so we decided to spend our morning hanging out with them. The nature center provides food for a small fee, and Henry loves to feed the turtles. I think he’s pretty good about dropping the food close to the dock and also scattering it farther away. In addition to turtles, we saw ducklings, red-tailed hawks, owls, reddish egrets, tortoises, snakes, and fish. We hiked along its awesome boardwalk through saw palmetto and alongside mangroves to the intracoastal and watched the drawbridge let a sailboat through. It was a pretty fantastic morning for a two-year old. 

    

 

it was windy!
 
   

This evening, we attended our first ever Pentecost Vigil at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Clearwater. Henry loved the procession of fire and the red banners waving above the congregation. He may have loved playing with the drinking fountain even more (who am I kidding, the drinking fountain was his fav). 

   

oooh, fire!
 We even sang one of my favorite songs “Lead Me Guide Me.” It reminds me of our time spent in Philly at St. Mark’s Lutheran, where it was sung with such gusto, it put a smile on my face. 

Lead me, guide me, along the way,

For if you lead me I cannot stray.

Lord let me walk each day with Thee:

Lead me, oh Lord lead me.

Even while typing out the chorus, I’m singing the song in my head and smiling. Some songs just do that. 

barefoot jumping in the pulpit (after service, of course)

Dance, Dance, Party, Party (at the Library)

Henry and I spend most Thursday mornings at “Wiggle, Giggle, and Sing” at the Seminole Community Library. The program itself starts at 10:30, but beginning at 10am there are toys for the under-five set to play with and get some energy out. It’s a nice way to ease into the chaos that is 30+ toddlers and their caregivers dancing around. The class consists of 10-15 minutes of movement-based songs, then 10 minutes of dancing with beanbags, handkerchiefs, or a parachute, and 5-10 minutes of playing with musical instruments. 

 

the chaos
 
The Hen’s fav dance move is spinning, always spinning. He can totally do what the songs are talking about, but he’d much rather spin in circles. I don’t know how he never gets dizzy. He also loves playing with the musical instruments, especially the coffee can drums. He can drum and spin at the same time, yet somehow trips when standing still. It makes no sense. He’s starting to sing along with the songs (any song he loves, actually) – his current favorites are “Swim to Stay Strong” and “Shake Your Sillies Out.”

 

drumming like Animal from the Muppets!
  
 

Afterwards, we either color or do the craft of the week, read a few books (trucks, trucks, and more trucks these days), and play with the puppets in the puppet theater. Henry and the other kids mostly throw the puppets from the ledge and hide behind the curtain while giggling excitedly. It’s pretty adorable. We finish by eating a snack outside at the picnic tables because all that playing builds up quite an appetite. Yogurt raisins and oranges are usually the perfect combination. Today we had two special guests with us – my parents, Grandma and Grandpop to Henry, are visiting for a couple days. Henry thought reading with Grandma was the best part of it all. 

  

Intro to My Life

Hey! I am a Florida native (Jacksonville, born and raised; now a Tampa Bay resident) former government employee (yo, Philly, I miss you!), a pastor’s wife (with Lutheran flair), and stay at home mama to Henry (my two year old bundle of energy and adorableness, a sometimes deadly combination). Those are a lot of identities, and I’m always discovering more things I’d like to do. Like writing more, starting with this blog. Notice how I didn’t say “writing better”. My husband, Keith, keeps telling me if I want to become a better writer, I need to write more often and establish a daily writing practice. So here it goes. My hopes include documentation of my family’s weekly adventures, to help other families discover the exciting and mundane in Pinellas county as well as record our happenings, my interests (mostly the arts, movies, books, working on my fitness, and travel), and my life. I hope you like it!

  

Living the Hen Life (13 months)

I’ve never done “a day in the life” kind of post before, but I thought it would be fun to try to do them monthly since Henry is developing a personality and is actually doing interesting things. I picked Tuesday (June 16th) because most Tuesdays follow the same routine that doesn’t necessarily exist on other days. 

Today, Henry woke up around 8:30 am, which is later than he has been getting up since he stopped waking up to eat in the middle of the night. He nursed, got a diaper change, and then was ready to play like it’s his job or something. One of the first things he does is find a book, or to be more accurate, several books, and then alternate between reading them himself (sometimes he makes random noises which is what I’m sure I sound like reading to him) or asking me to read. He usually gets tired of a book after a few pages, but it’s so nice to have him ask me (in his gibberish) and then plop down into my lap for a story. He’s usually drinking a cup of milk during this time. 

He plays on his own while I make our breakfasts; I eat mine first then he gets his because I need time for my coffee to kick in. He eats around 9:30, then goes into his “Hen Pen” to play while I get us ready to go for the day and clean up the house for the appraiser to assess it (long story short – the place we are renting is under contract for sale and we move July 1 to another temporary place). 

We make it out the door around 11 (it takes forever for us to get moving, I know) and head over to the library for the chaos that is story/play time. It’s actually a great (free) class where Henry (and 40 or so 1 to 2 year olds and their parents) play, sing songs, and read together until 12:30. We’re both usually wiped afterwards. Henry fell asleep in the car on the way home, and napped for 1 hour and 45 minutes (on the shorter side of his naps). He mostly naps in our bed with me next to him because I NEED my naps, too. 

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After nap, he nurses, we eat lunch, play for a bit, then head to the gym to work out. Henry plays in the gym area near me while I lift weights. It’s not actually a gym, just a workout room in the back of a friend’s business where they are nice enough to let Henry cause chaos while I get my workout in. After we finished at the gym (around 4:30), we ran errands.

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While Henry danced to his muppet jams (new fav move: stamping his foot), I made dinner for the two of us at 6:30 (mac and cheese and steamed green beans) since Keith had to work late, and we took our 3-mile usual walk with a stop at the playground for Henry to play. He pretty much stuck to the swing tonight, but did play in the sand enough to get dirty. The last few minutes of our walk he fell asleep (of course), and since he had a full diaper I couldn’t just put him in his crib so I changed him, put on his pj’s, nursed him, and tried to get him to sleep. FAIL. The catnap killed all hope of him going to sleep at his normal bedtime. On a typical night he takes a bath around 8:30, gets ready for bed, reads a story, nurses, then is asleep by 9 to 9:30. Tonight he fought against all of that; maybe because I skipped bath because he was too tired, maybe because he didn’t feel like going to sleep until 10 – I don’t know. But I let him play for a little while, nursed him again, and then he finally fell asleep. Only to be woken up by a power outage at 12:15 am. Sometimes that’s just how it goes. Living the Hen life.

Nine Months Out

Henry turned 9 months old last Saturday, and in between when he was born
and now I fell off the wagon in terms of posting to our blog. Well, no
longer! Henry’s 9-month check-up went well. He weighs 21.7 pounds and is
30.25 inches long putting him in the 78th and 98th percentiles,
respectively. He’s a big guy, but dropped from his 93rd percentile in
weight at 6 months because he is always on the move.

He is rarely still. He crawls with lightning speed; luckily he plops his
hands down so loudly that you can hear him coming from one end of the house
to the other. He also likes to giggle and make noises when crawling because
it’s just so much fun. He also cruises all around the furniture and is just
now getting brave enough to stand without holding on to anything except his
toys. He tries to have a toy in each hand when he stands alone – maybe for
balance – maybe to just look cool and carefree. Finally, he loves to dance.
If I put on the right music (The Roots or Beatles iTunes radio stations),
then he starts bouncing up and down and occasionally does the “Single
Ladies” hand dancing. He definitely has his own rhythm. And I love it.

Oh, Henry!

We have a baby! Henry Micah Walbolt was born at 1:35pm on Wednesday, May 1, 2013, after twelve hours of labor including nearly two hours of pushing. I’m not going to go into details with the labor process (worst thing ever to produce our best project ever!), but generally here’s what happened.

Around 1am on May 1st I was getting ready to go to bed and all of a sudden I felt my water break. No real contractions, just water breaking a little at a time. And since water breaking was one of a couple situations where my doctor told me to go straight to the hospital, off we went. Due to the lack of contractions, I was put on pitocin, which creates overly strong and long contractions compared to the normal process. I lasted about four hours without any drugs, and then it became too much. I was spending too much energy fighting each contraction, so I decided I needed drugs for the pain. First, I got a shot of something and an IV drip of something else which pretty much made me too high to care about the contractions. I don’t recommend it, and probably would have gone straight for the epidural if the nurse had properly explained what was happening. A few hours later (once the narcotics wore off), I got an epidural numbing everything enough (I could still slightly feel contractions) until it was time to push.

Pushing was the worst. I kept second-guessing myself each time because I literally could not breathe by the time the third push during each contraction rolled around. Somehow I made it through, and Henry was born…with the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck. So Keith didn’t get to cut the cord originally, but he did get to do a secondary cut later.

Henry weighed 7 pounds, 3 ounces and was 20 inches long at birth. We think he’s perfect, even though no one is actually perfect. He’s perfect to us.

So Over Being Pregnant

With twelve days left until our due date, I am so over being pregnant. I’ve been saying that for a couple of weeks now, but I’m really and truly over it. I think I’ve done a pretty good job with not complaining up until this point, so this post is really going to let my chief complaints fly.

I’ve been able to walk practically every day, although now I’m at the speed where I’m faster than most octogenarians, but slower than the ugly Muscovy ducks that have invaded Coral Springs. I can’t wait to move like a normal human being again, and even better, go for a run.

I’m tired of feeling like my body no longer belongs to me. Everything hurts at some point during the day, especially my feet. I have passed the point of being able to comfortably wear shoes. It hurts my belly too much to bend over to put them on. Luckily, I live in Florida where flip flops are socially acceptable footwear for nearly every occasion so I’ve been living in those.

Sleeping used to be one of my favorite things to do, naps were awesome and I almost always felt better afterwards. Now, if I can sleep for two hours in a row without having to get up to go to the bathroom or change positions in bed (which involves carefully and slowly using my upper body to flip sides) I consider the sleep a success. I know sleep will continue to be interrupted once Baby Boy arrives, but at least there will be a much better reason for my tiredness.

To end on a positive note, Keith keeps saying that I’m rocking this pregnancy like an all star. And for the most part I agree, especially because Keith is so great at helping me feel better. I’m in my 38th week and currently Baby Boy is the size of a pumpkin (18.9-20.9 inches long, and 6.2-9.2 pounds). The real reason I’m so over being pregnant is that we can’t wait to meet our Baby Boy within the next few weeks – it’s going to be an awesome adventure.